Helping Your Parents Downsize for Retirement or Assisted Living

Downsizing isn’t just about reducing square footage—it’s about helping your parents retain control and dignity during a major life change. Here’s how to do it with empathy.

• Acknowledge Emotions – Items may trigger grief or joy. Respect the process.

• Don’t Rush – Build in rest breaks and reflection time.

• Listen More Than You Talk – Let your parent guide the conversation.

• Use Visual Aids – Bring a photo album of the new home or even take a tour together.

• Celebrate Progress – After clearing each room, treat it as a win.

Suggested Support Roles:

• A sibling can handle logistics.

• A grandchild can help sort or photograph heirlooms.

• A senior move manager can oversee coordination.